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23 Adult children who feel almost nothing on routine calls with a parent — not love, not irritation, not connection, just dutiful neutrality — aren’t emotionally numb, they’re correctly registering that the relationship was never quite built, and the absence of feeling is the body’s honest report on a closeness that was assigned rather than developed

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Daniel Moran @ Silicon Canals 3 place · today 06:15 EDT

Adult children who feel almost nothing on routine calls with a parent — not love, not irritation, not connection, just dutiful neutrality — aren’t emotionally numb, they’re correctly registering that the relationship was never quite built, and the absence of feeling is the body’s honest report on a closeness that was assigned rather than developed

There is a particular emotional flavor that some adult children feel during their regular calls with a parent, and that very few of them ever describe out loud, because the feeling itself sounds, when stated plainly, like a kind of indictment. The flavor is not love. It is not warmth. It is not irritation, exactly. ... Read more

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