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34 I’m 66 and the hardest life lesson I ever learned wasn’t that people change – it was that I spent forty years trying to earn love from people who were only ever going to give me conditional approval based on what I could do for them

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Tommy Baker @ Silicon Canals · 03/24/2026 23:44 EDT

I’m 66 and the hardest life lesson I ever learned wasn’t that people change – it was that I spent forty years trying to earn love from people who were only ever going to give me conditional approval based on what I could do for them

I want to tell you about something that took me sixty-six years to figure out, and even now, sitting here at the same diner booth I’ve been sitting in every Saturday morning for twenty years, I’m not sure I’ve fully digested it. The lesson is this: some people in your life will never love you. ... Read more

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