557 I stopped trying to explain my boundaries and started just having them. The people who needed the explanation were never going to respect the boundary. They needed the explanation so they could argue with it.

Newark apartment complex bought for much less than prior value

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George Avalos @ Silicon Valley 1 place · 02/07/2106 01:28 EDT

An East Bay apartment complex has been bought at a price that's well below its prior value. Read more ›

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PG&E buys San Jose building to bolster South Bay operations

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George Avalos @ Silicon Valley 2 place · 02/07/2106 01:28 EDT

A PG&E Corp. unit has bought a San Jose building in a move to bolster the utility's South Bay operations. Read more ›

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5 AI-powered consulting startups to watch

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Lakshmi Varanasi @ Business Insider 1 place · today 14:23 EDT

Silicon Valley is pouring money into a new AI category some investors call "consulting tech." Read more ›

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I Regret to Inform You That the Artemis II Astronauts Are Having Lots of Screen Time

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Mike Pearl @ Gizmodo 1 place · today 14:19 EDT

Going to the moon now involves iPhones and Microsoft Surface tablets. Read more ›

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I’m 66 and here’s the one thing I’d tell my 30-year-old self — the life you keep postponing until you’ve earned it, finished it, or figured it out is not waiting for you at the end of the list, it is the list, and every item you check off before you let yourself begin is another year of your actual life spent preparing to live a different one

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Tommy Baker @ Silicon Canals 1 place · today 14:15 EDT

At 66, I discovered that the forty years I spent preparing to live — saving money, building security, postponing joy until I was "ready" — those weren't preparation at all; they were my actual life, passing by while I sat in the waiting room of someday. Read more ›

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Пробуем использовать бесплатные ИИ для написания кода

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sergio5990 @ Habr 1 place · today 14:15 EDT

Мы много слышали про написание кода с использованием ИИ, и хочется рассказать, как можно это попробовать без платной подписки. Здесь не будет глубокого погружения и сравнения моделей — только базовые основы и способы бесплатно оценить возможности ИИ, которые есть у нас сегодня, и решить, нужна ли вам платная подписка. Читать далее Read more ›

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The Dreame Miracle Pro finally gives my scalp and hair the attention they deserve

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TechRadar 1 place · today 14:00 EDT

The Dreame Miracle Pro feels genuinely different – a dryer that actually improves how your hair looks and feels Read more ›

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Apple pulled this AI app… and now it’s suddenly back

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Varun Mirchandani @ Digital Trends 1 place · today 13:57 EDT

Apple has reinstated the Anything AI app after removing it over policy violations, following backlash and a clever iMessage workaround by developers. Read more ›

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Как контролировать расходы, если денег уже не осталось: разбор механик тотального контроля в 6 PFM-сервисах

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Stepushchenko @ Habr 2 place · today 13:54 EDT

В условиях экономической турбулентности управление личными финансами превращается из хобби в задачу по выживанию. Когда инфляция съедает накопления, а горизонт планирования сузился до месяца, красивые круговые диаграммы с итогами года больше не работают. Чтобы выбраться из долгов или хотя бы не свалиться в кассовый разрыв, нужен жесткий, тотальный контроль над каждым рублем, долларом или крипто-центом.Мы разобрали 6 популярных PFM-инструментов (Personal Finance Management), чтобы посмотреть, как именно — на Read more ›

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Crimson Desert patch now available – here's what's new

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Vikki Blake @ Eurogamer.net 1 place · today 13:52 EDT

Pearl Abyss has rolled out another patch for Crimson Desert, adding in the Headgear Visibility option to give you a better look at Kliff, private storage capacity expansion of up to 1000 slots (depending on the Greymane camp's expansion level), and numerous other "fixes and improvements". Read more Read more ›

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A folk musician became a target for AI fakes and a copyright troll

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Terrence O’Brien @ The Verge 1 place · today 13:52 EDT

In January, folk artist Murphy Campbell discovered several songs on her Spotify profile that did not belong there. They were songs that she had recorded, but she'd never uploaded them to Spotify, and something was off about the vocals. She quickly surmised that someone had pulled performances of the songs she posted to YouTube, created […] Read more ›

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Ireland is testing out a digital wallet that conducts age verification for social media users

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Jackson Chen @ Engadget 1 place · today 13:50 EDT

Before it's publicly available later this year, the Irish government is trialing its Government Digital Wallet, which includes a way to verify a user's age to access social media platforms. In its press release, the government's Department of Public Expediture, Infrastructure, Public Service Reform and Digitalisation said people can store digital versions of their birth certificates, driving licenses, European health cards and more. Frank Feighan, the department's minister, said that... Read more ›

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Арбитражный суд для IT‑бизнеса: почему выигрывают не те, кто прав, а те, кто понимает систему

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ddconsult @ Habr 3 place · today 13:46 EDT

Или как не потерять деньги из‑за неправильной подсудности, неверно выбранной инстанции и игнорирования «Моего арбитра»Представьте стандартную ситуацию: вы разработали сложный B2B‑продукт, внедрили его у клиента, а он не платит. Вы уверены в своей правоте, идёте в суд — и проигрываете. Не потому, что договор плохой, а потому, что ошиблись с подсудностью, не приложили скриншоты переписки или пропустили срок апелляции.В IT‑бизнесе арбитражные споры — это не редкая экзотика, а рутина. Лицензионные... Read more ›

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Psychology says people who are nice on the surface but have no close friends aren’t lonely because nobody wants them — they’re lonely because the version of them that everyone wants is not the version that needs anything, and a self that never needs anything is a self that nobody ever gets close enough to actually know

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Christian Kelly @ Silicon Canals 2 place · today 13:45 EDT

Behind every perpetually helpful, drama-free person who seems to have it all together lies a peculiar paradox: they're often the loneliest in the room, not because they're unlikeable, but because they've perfected the art of being needed without ever revealing what they need. Read more ›

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Fixing Your Slow SSD Might Be Easier Than You Think

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SlashGear 1 place · today 13:45 EDT

Is your SSD getting slow? Discover the hidden reason behind the problem and find out the simple trick that can bring it back to its former glory. Read more ›

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Nobody tells you that expecting instant replies is a relatively new social norm — and that an entire generation learned to communicate in ways that never required it

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Sarah Mitchell @ Silicon Canals 3 place · today 13:40 EDT

The anxiety you feel when someone doesn't text back within minutes is younger than YouTube — and an entire generation built deeper relationships without ever experiencing it. Read more ›

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Amazon Must Negotiate With First Warehouse Workers Union, US Labor Board Rules

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EditorDavid @ Slashdot 1 place · today 13:34 EDT

Amazon "must negotiate with a labor union representing some 5,000 workers at a company warehouse on Staten Island," reports Reuters, citing a ruling Wednesday from America's National Labor Relations Board (NLRB). The union formed in 2022, according to the article, and "has been seeking to negotiate with Amazon over pay, working conditions and other matters." The NLRB said in its ruling that Amazon "has engaged in unfair labor practices" by... Read more ›

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Psychology says people who drop their friends as soon as they get into a new relationship aren’t choosing love over friendship — they’re revealing that the friendships were always filling a need the relationship now fills, and the difference between a friend and a placeholder is something most people only discover when the relationship arrives and the friends quietly disappear

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Sarah Mitchell @ Silicon Canals · today 13:30 EDT

When someone vanishes from your life the moment they start dating, it's not the romance that killed your friendship — it's the revelation that you were never truly friends at all, just two people filling each other's empty spaces until something better came along. Read more ›

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Astonishing never-before-seen Elden Ring deleted cutscene discovered

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Vikki Blake @ Eurogamer.net 2 place · today 13:23 EDT

A new, never-before-seen map file has revealed more secrets about content cut from the final version of Elden Ring. Read more Read more ›

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Минимальный набор устройств для работы в ИТ на апрель 2026 ver.2

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dragonhome @ Habr · today 13:23 EDT

Минимальный набор устройств для работы в ИТ на апрель 2026 ver.2С учетом текущих санкций, разделения инета на сегменты и рекомендаций минцифры https://habr.com/ru/news/1018576/,получается, что типичному работающему корпоративному ИТ россиянину необходимо: Читать далее Read more ›

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There’s a specific kind of loneliness that belongs to people who are funny in groups but completely unreachable one-on-one, and it’s the loneliness of having learned that performance is safer than proximity

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Lachlan Brown @ Silicon Canals · 03/28/2026 15:49 EDT

You know this person. You might be this person. In a room full of people they are magnetic. The timing is perfect, the observations are sharp, there’s an ease to them that makes everyone around them feel looser and funnier by proximity. They hold the group together. They defuse tension before it settles. They are, ... Read more Read more ›

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Psychology says the loneliest form of resilience isn’t surviving hardship – it’s being so good at handling everything alone that people stop checking if you need support and eventually you stop believing you deserve it

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Lachlan Brown @ Silicon Canals · 03/28/2026 18:45 EDT

There’s a version of resilience that looks like strength from the outside and feels like disappearing from the inside. It develops gradually, usually starting in circumstances where needing things was costly in some way. Maybe needs were dismissed when they were expressed. Maybe the people who were supposed to provide support were too overwhelmed themselves. ... Read more Read more ›

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There’s a specific kind of introvert who is warm, funny, and genuinely interested in people, and who is also completely depleted by them, and who has spent decades trying to explain this distinction to extroverts who hear it as rejection

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Lachlan Brown @ Silicon Canals · 03/28/2026 19:15 EDT

The most persistent misunderstanding about introversion is not that introverts are shy. The shyness conflation has been corrected enough times that most people who think about it at all understand they’re different things. Shyness is fear. Introversion is something else: a specific relationship between stimulation and energy, a matter of where the nervous system is ... Read more Read more ›

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I’m 37 and I just caught myself apologizing to a waiter for sending back the wrong order – and I realized I’ve been managing other people’s discomfort my entire adult life and calling it good manners

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Lachlan Brown @ Silicon Canals · 03/28/2026 20:32 EDT

I was at a restaurant in Saigon last week, and the waiter brought me the wrong dish. It happens. He apologized, took it back, and came out ten minutes later with the right one. And when he set it down in front of me, I said “sorry about that.” Sorry about that. To the waiter. ... Read more Read more ›

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The people who seem unbothered by what others think of them aren’t indifferent. They just moved the audience from external to internal sometime in their thirties and never told anyone about the shift.

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Lachlan Brown @ Silicon Canals · 03/28/2026 22:08 EDT

People who seem unbothered by others' opinions haven't stopped caring — they've relocated the judge from other people's heads into their own, building an internal audience whose standards they take more seriously than any external crowd. Read more ›

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People who were labeled ‘the easy child’ often became adults who confuse having no needs with being low maintenance, and the difference between those two things is about thirty years of unasked questions

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Christian Kelly @ Silicon Canals · 03/28/2026 22:38 EDT

Children praised for being 'easy' often learned that having no needs was the price of love. Decades later, they struggle to distinguish genuine low-maintenance temperament from a lifetime of suppressed needs, and the cost is intimacy, authenticity, and self-knowledge. Read more ›

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Psychology says people who prefer texting to phone calls aren’t being antisocial – they’re protecting the quality of their thinking from the demands of real-time performance

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Lachlan Brown @ Silicon Canals · 03/29/2026 00:44 EDT

At some point in the last decade, preferring to text became something people apologize for. Not formally, not loudly, but in the small ways: the “sorry, I’m bad at phone calls” that gets deployed before someone even asks. The “I know this is easier for me than for you.” The implicit acceptance that phone calls ... Read more Read more ›

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Psychology says people who seem genuinely happy aren’t people who have more – they’re people who stopped measuring what they have against what they imagined they should have by now

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Lachlan Brown @ Silicon Canals · 03/29/2026 01:50 EDT

There is a version of your life that exists only in your head. You didn’t consciously design it — it assembled itself from ambient cultural information, parental expectations, the timelines of people you went to school with, social media feeds, and the general background radiation of a society that makes constant implicit suggestions about what ... Read more Read more ›

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The friends you can call after six months of silence and pick up exactly where you left off aren’t low maintenance. They’re the only people who ever loved the version of you that exists between performances.

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Christian Kelly @ Silicon Canals · 03/29/2026 03:04 EDT

The friends who survive months of silence aren't low-maintenance relationships. They're the rare bonds built on seeing someone's unperformed self — and the psychological security required to hold that space is anything but effortless. Read more ›

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6 signs someone grew up as the mediator between their parents, according to family therapists, and why those skills make them exceptional at work but exhausted in their own relationships

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James Brennan @ Silicon Canals · 03/29/2026 03:34 EDT

Children who mediated between their parents developed extraordinary emotional skills that organisations reward and relationships struggle to contain. Six signs reveal how the same conflict-management instincts that fuel professional success quietly drain personal connection. Read more ›

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