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603 Every burned-out person I’ve ever interviewed had spent years confusing being constantly available with being genuinely committed

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Sarah Mitchell @ Silicon Canals Ā· 03/13/2026 10:00 EDT

Every burned-out person I’ve ever interviewed had spent years confusing being constantly available with being genuinely committed

The moment I realized I hadn't eaten lunch in three months while simultaneously writing about work-life balance was when I understood that my "dedication" was actually destroying everything I claimed to care about.

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