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932 There’s a particular kind of loneliness that belongs to people who are everyone’s safe place but have never once been asked where they go when they’re the one who isn’t okay

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Tommy Baker @ Silicon Canals · 03/10/2026 21:33 EDT

There’s a particular kind of loneliness that belongs to people who are everyone’s safe place but have never once been asked where they go when they’re the one who isn’t okay

There's an under-studied loneliness that accumulates in people who've become the designated emotional anchor in their relationships — not because they volunteered, but because they were good at it once, and the world never stopped asking.

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