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971 Children who were always told to figure it out themselves didn’t become independent. They became adults who are terrifyingly capable but have no internal template for what it feels like to be helped.

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Christian Kelly @ Silicon Canals · 03/10/2026 07:06 EDT

Children who were always told to figure it out themselves didn’t become independent. They became adults who are terrifyingly capable but have no internal template for what it feels like to be helped.

Children raised to "figure it out" became stunningly competent adults with no internal model for receiving help. The result isn't independence — it's self-reliance without an off switch.

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