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766 Psychologists explain the reason older people stop caring what others think isn’t wisdom or maturity — it’s that they’ve finally run out of energy to maintain versions of themselves that other people found more palatable

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Sarah Mitchell @ Silicon Canals · 03/08/2026 20:00 EDT

Psychologists explain the reason older people stop caring what others think isn’t wisdom or maturity — it’s that they’ve finally run out of energy to maintain versions of themselves that other people found more palatable

After decades of exhausting themselves maintaining polished versions for public consumption, older people don't suddenly gain wisdom about not caring what others think—they simply run out of energy to keep pretending, and that depletion might be the most honest thing about aging.

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