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874 The quiet reason some adults find compliments harder to receive than criticism isn’t low self-esteem, it’s that praise was often the warning sign that something was about to be asked of them

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Silicon Canals Editorial Team @ Silicon Canals · 07/01/2026 04:56 EDT

The quiet reason some adults find compliments harder to receive than criticism isn’t low self-esteem, it’s that praise was often the warning sign that something was about to be asked of them

The flinch at compliments is often mistaken for low self-esteem, but for many adults it's a learned association from childhoods where kind words reliably preceded a request. The body remembers the equation long after the household is gone.

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