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1020 The most underrated piece of self-development advice is to stop trying to be understood by everyone — and the people who learn it early get back hours of their week they had been spending in conversations that were never going to produce the understanding they were performing for

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Silicon Canals Editorial Team @ Silicon Canals 2 place · 05/19/2026 05:15 EDT

The most underrated piece of self-development advice is to stop trying to be understood by everyone — and the people who learn it early get back hours of their week they had been spending in conversations that were never going to produce the understanding they were performing for

There is a particular piece of self-development advice that, on the available evidence, almost nobody gives early enough in adult life for it to do the work it could otherwise have done. The piece of advice is to stop trying to be understood by everyone. The advice sounds, on first hearing, slightly callous, slightly cynical, ... Read more

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