29 People in their 60s with no close friends didn’t lose those friendships through any failure of character — the friendships were structurally maintained by a workplace, a school run, a neighborhood, or a marriage, and when the structure ended the friendships ended with it, and what looks like a personal deficit is actually the silent collapse of an architecture nobody told them was holding their social life up

Newark apartment complex bought for much less than prior value

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George Avalos @ Silicon Valley 1 place · 02/07/2106 01:28 EDT

An East Bay apartment complex has been bought at a price that's well below its prior value. Read more ›

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PG&E buys San Jose building to bolster South Bay operations

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George Avalos @ Silicon Valley 2 place · 02/07/2106 01:28 EDT

A PG&E Corp. unit has bought a San Jose building in a move to bolster the utility's South Bay operations. Read more ›

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$200 'socketed' Nvidia AI GPU for servers hacked into a PCIe card with custom PCB and 3D-printed cooling — modded Tesla V100 SMX data center GPU runs AI LLMs and is more efficient than many modern midrange offerings in AI inference

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Tom's Hardware 1 place · today 06:50 EDT

Turns out, Nvidia's older Turing-era V100 AI GPU is still pretty capable today, even with just 16GB of VRAM. A YouTuber got his hands on the SMX variant for just $100, converted it to a PCIe x16 interface for another $100 with an adapter, and got some pretty impressive results across AI inference and NVR benchmarks. Read more ›

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Psychology suggests that adult children who are the most loyal to their parents in late life are often the ones who never quite became close to them — the loyalty is the substitute for the closeness that didn’t form, and the visits, the calls, the careful attention are sometimes a daughter’s way of paying for an intimacy that was supposed to have been included

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Daniel Moran @ Silicon Canals 1 place · today 06:45 EDT

There is a particular kind of adult child who shows up. They are the one who calls every Sunday. They are the one who flies in for every minor surgery. They are the one who, when the parent’s health begins to thin, takes over the medical appointments, the pharmacy runs, the small ongoing logistics of ... Read more Read more ›

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Your iPhone's Keyboard Has A Useful Built-In Feature Most People Don't Know About

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SlashGear 1 place · today 06:45 EDT

Your iPhone keyboard may not have every feature users want, but a handy new iOS tool makes some tasks involving numbers quicker than you might expect. Read more ›

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Weekly deals: the Samsung Galaxy S26 trio gets discounts up to €500, iPhones also get price cuts

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GSMArena.com 1 place · today 06:31 EDT

We’re headed into the second half of 2026, which is when Samsung switches its focus to the Z-foldables. Meanwhile, the S26 series has received some pretty significant price cuts. We start with the Samsung Galaxy S26. The base model – which finally features 256GB of storage instead of 128GB – is €165 off. There’s the option to upgrade to 512GB, which also involves a discount voucher. All three S26 phones... Read more ›

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Do City Delivery Drones Make Sense? No One Knows, but They're Flying Over NYC

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Aarian Marshall @ Wired 1 place · today 06:30 EDT

One of the country’s busiest airspaces has a new kind of flying machine—maybe temporarily. Read more ›

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How I stopped Nova Launcher from tracking me without sacrificing my setup

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Andy Walker @ Android Authority 1 place · today 06:30 EDT

User privacy or that decade-old setup? You can have both. Read more ›

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These 5 Car And Truck Models Have The Worst Resale Value After 5 Years

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SlashGear 2 place · today 06:30 EDT

From EVs to full-size SUVs, these vehicles suffer steep depreciation that can turn an expensive purchase into a tough sell. Read more ›

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Psychology suggests that the loneliest moment in midlife isn’t a holiday or an anniversary — it’s a regular Wednesday afternoon when you realize you don’t actually know who in your life would notice if you went quiet for a week, and the realization arrives so calmly that it takes another few weeks to admit it counts as something worth grieving

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Daniel Moran @ Silicon Canals 2 place · today 06:30 EDT

The loneliest moment in midlife, for many people, does not arrive on a holiday. It does not arrive on an anniversary. It does not arrive at any of the dates the culture has earmarked as occasions when loneliness is, in some sense, expected and therefore prepared for. It arrives, in many cases, on a Wednesday ... Read more Read more ›

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NASA pushes Mars helicopter rotors past the speed of sound for the first time ever — next-gen “SkyFall” aircraft's rotors hit 3,750 RPM, ten times faster than normal helicopters

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Tom's Hardware 2 place · today 06:25 EDT

NASA successfully tested Mars helicopter rotors at Mach 1.08 inside JPL’s Mars simulator chamber, paving the way for larger next-generation aircraft under the proposed SkyFall mission to explore more of the Red Planet. Read more ›

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Три архитектурных решения для multi-tenant B2B SaaS, о которых я пожалел, что не узнал раньше

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Isaev1980 @ Habr 1 place · today 06:18 EDT

Самая дорогая ошибка моего B2B SaaS имела ровно одну строчкуСамая дорогая ошибка моего B2B SaaS имела ровно одну строчку: TENANT_ID = “tenant-1” в config.py. Полтора дня поиска бага показали, почему multi-tenant архитектуру нужно закладывать с первого коммита. Разбор трёх архитектурных решений для multi-tenant SaaS в регулируемой отрасли — tenant_id helper, PostgreSQL EXCLUDE USING gist против double-booking, 152-ФЗ как код на FastAPI и SQLAlchemy. Читать далее Read more ›

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Очередная методичка разработки с LLM: работает только если ты разработчик

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okoloboga @ Habr 2 place · today 06:15 EDT

С 2024 года, когда LLM стали (плюс/минус) пригодны для генерации кода и решения рабочих задач, я начал тащить их в свои проекты. Сначала кусками: помочь с функцией, разобрать ошибку, прикинуть архитектуру, или вообще не соглашаться на проект. Очень быстро понял: если не будет в этом процессе норм и правил - будет только бардак и проекты я буду закрывать медленнее, чем если бы писал код руками. Модель уходит в дебри, забывает... Read more ›

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Adult children who feel almost nothing on routine calls with a parent — not love, not irritation, not connection, just dutiful neutrality — aren’t emotionally numb, they’re correctly registering that the relationship was never quite built, and the absence of feeling is the body’s honest report on a closeness that was assigned rather than developed

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Daniel Moran @ Silicon Canals 3 place · today 06:15 EDT

There is a particular emotional flavor that some adult children feel during their regular calls with a parent, and that very few of them ever describe out loud, because the feeling itself sounds, when stated plainly, like a kind of indictment. The flavor is not love. It is not warmth. It is not irritation, exactly. ... Read more Read more ›

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Я плохой программист, плохой менеджер и вообще недоэксперт в любой области

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vital_pavlenko @ Habr 3 place · today 06:09 EDT

Снова и снова возвращаюсь в одну и ту же точку. Мне становится скучно на работе в найме. Работаешь несколько лет в одной компании, меняешь команды и проекты в надежде, что что-то изменится. Не помогает — меняешь компанию и роль. Но потом все возвращается на тот же круг. Можно назвать это выгоранием, но это слишком широкое понятие. Я захотел копнуть чуть глубже. Читать далее Read more ›

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The iPhone Air shows why compact phones are still the better answer

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Vikhyaat Vivek @ Digital Trends 1 place · today 06:08 EDT

The iPhone Air is a clever answer to heavy flagship phones, but using one reminded me that thinness and lightness still don’t solve the real problem of a typical tall phone. Read more ›

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What Sam Altman's lawyer learned from RBG and driving a cab

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Jacob Shamsian @ Business Insider 1 place · today 06:03 EDT

William Savitt drove a cab before clerking for Ruth Bader Ginsburg and taking on Elon Musk in court. Here's his advice for young lawyers. Read more ›

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Ukraine’s new AI-guided laser burns holes in Shahed suicide drones in seconds from 3.1 miles away — also useful for demining operations, trailer-mounted Tryzub system is in final stages of testing

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Tom's Hardware 3 place · today 06:00 EDT

Ukraine has developed a mobile AI-powered anti-drone laser that can down lethal Shahed drones up to 3.1 miles away. Read more ›

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Last Tesla Model S and X Roll Off Production Line

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Mike Pearl @ Gizmodo 1 place · today 06:00 EDT

The quiet death of Tesla's high-end models marks the end of Tesla as a relatively ordinary car company. Read more ›

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5 Android phones you should buy instead of the Motorola Razr Fold

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Rita El Khoury @ Android Authority 2 place · today 06:00 EDT

Motorola's track record in book-style foldables has yet to be proven, so consider other options first. Read more ›

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People who can’t stop offering to help carry things, refill drinks, or load the dishwasher at someone else’s house aren’t well-raised, they grew up in homes where being useful was the price of being welcome

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Justin Brown @ Silicon Canals · 05/03/2026 08:19 EDT

Compulsive helpfulness at other people's homes often gets read as good manners. The pattern underneath is usually something else: a childhood lesson that welcome was contingent on being useful, automated decades later in someone else's kitchen. Read more ›

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Psychology says the people who thrive in high-pressure environments aren’t the most resilient — they’ve just built better systems for knowing when to stop

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Lachlan Brown @ Silicon Canals · 05/03/2026 09:00 EDT

The most successful people under pressure have discovered what psychology confirms: knowing exactly when to stop pushing isn't weakness — it's the sophisticated system that separates those who burn out from those who sustain peak performance for decades. Read more ›

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I noticed I have been saying I am tired for ten years when the more accurate word is unwitnessed, and tired was just the version of the truth that nobody would follow up on

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Justin Brown @ Silicon Canals · 05/03/2026 09:08 EDT

After a decade of defaulting to the word 'tired,' I realised it was never the truth — just the version of the truth nobody would follow up on. On emotional labour, the cost of vague vocabulary, and the word I was actually looking for. Read more ›

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I stopped offering my opinion in family group chats six months ago, no commentary, no reactions, no jumping in to smooth things over, just to see who would notice my absence, and the silence taught me something I had been working hard not to know for about twenty years

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Lachlan Brown @ Silicon Canals · 05/03/2026 09:38 EDT

I went silent in my family group chat for six months as a quiet experiment. Two people out of fourteen noticed. Here's what the silence revealed about the difference between being needed and being known. Read more ›

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I’m 44 and I noticed last month that I have been turning down invitations not because I don’t want to go, but because saying yes used to mean rearranging my life around someone else’s plan, and I’m still flinching at a contract nobody is asking me to sign anymore

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Justin Brown @ Silicon Canals · 05/03/2026 21:12 EDT

I kept declining invitations I actually wanted to accept. Then I noticed the reflex was protecting me from a deal nobody was offering — a contract I'd signed in childhood that had quietly expired without my body being told. Read more ›

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The people who keep every receipt, every warranty card, and every old utility bill in a labeled folder aren’t being uptight, they grew up watching adults get cornered by paperwork they couldn’t produce, and the folder is the version of safety they could build with their own hands

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Lachlan Brown @ Silicon Canals · 05/03/2026 22:13 EDT

Hyper-organised paper-keepers are usually misread as anxious or controlling. The truth is quieter: they watched an adult get cornered by paperwork once, and the folder is the version of safety a child could build with their own hands. Read more ›

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Quote by Voltaire: “Doubt is an uncomfortable condition, but certainty is a ridiculous one”

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Daniel Moran @ Silicon Canals · 05/04/2026 00:50 EDT

I had a friend in New York, years ago, who was certain about everything. I mean everything. The right way to make eggs. The correct decade for jazz. Which neighborhoods were finished and which were ascendant. Whether a particular novelist was overrated. Whether your relationship was going to work out. He delivered these verdicts the ... Read more Read more ›

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There’s a certain type of son who loves his father deeply but cannot sit in a room alone with him for more than twenty minutes — not because there’s anything wrong, but because neither of them was ever taught what men say to each other when nothing needs fixing

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Daniel Moran @ Silicon Canals · 05/04/2026 01:45 EDT

I was at my parents’ house in London a few years ago, sometime in the strange middle of an afternoon, and my mother went out to the shops. She said she’d be about an hour. She closed the front door. The house went quiet. My father was in the living room. I was in the ... Read more Read more ›

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The most painful thing about having parents who love you but don’t quite know you is that they will spend the rest of their lives describing a son they invented to people who will never meet the one you actually became.

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Daniel Moran @ Silicon Canals · 05/04/2026 02:15 EDT

My mother told a story about me at a dinner party in 2019. I wasn’t there. The story got back to me through a cousin, the way these things do, slightly rounded at the edges from the journey. In the story, I was a confident young man who had built a successful business through sheer ... Read more Read more ›

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The loneliest moment in adult life isn’t being alone in a quiet house, it’s sitting in a room full of people who have known you for decades and somehow stopped seeing you, and the weight of that loneliness is heavier than any solitary one

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Lachlan Brown @ Silicon Canals · 05/04/2026 10:33 EDT

The loneliness that hurts most isn't the empty house — it's the one waiting for you in the room where everyone thinks they already know who you are. Read more ›

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