863 Not everyone who keeps their feelings to themselves is private. Some people simply learned that expressing what was happening internally turned the conversation into a referendum on whether they were allowed to feel it at all

Newark apartment complex bought for much less than prior value

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George Avalos @ Silicon Valley 1 place · 02/07/2106 01:28 EDT

An East Bay apartment complex has been bought at a price that's well below its prior value. Read more ›

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PG&E buys San Jose building to bolster South Bay operations

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George Avalos @ Silicon Valley 2 place · 02/07/2106 01:28 EDT

A PG&E Corp. unit has bought a San Jose building in a move to bolster the utility's South Bay operations. Read more ›

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Gas Station Mix-Up Shows What Happens When Regular Engines Get Diesel Fuel

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SlashGear 1 place · today 05:45 EDT

A Circle K gas station in El Paso, Texas had a bit of a mix-up during a third party fuel delivery, resulting in a bad situation for some drivers. What happened? Read more ›

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High-earning real estate investors are using 'REPS' to slash tax bills. Here's who qualifies.

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Kathleen Elkins @ Business Insider 1 place · today 05:45 EDT

A unique IRS designation called real estate professional status can allow rental losses that are typically considered passive to offset active income. Read more ›

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Maker packs an opinionated, googly-eyed AI chatbot into a mobile suitcase, powered by an Nvidia Jetson — entirely local machine entity runs Gemma 4 E4B and can respond in 200ms

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Tom's Hardware 1 place · today 05:40 EDT

Sparky is an opinionated googly-eyed AI in a suitcase powered by an Nvidia Jetson Orin NS Super 16GB. Read more ›

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Elevator mechanics can make over $150,000, and this CEO says they can't hire them fast enough

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Ana Altchek @ Business Insider 2 place · today 05:36 EDT

The CEO of Otis says the elevator giant has expanded its field workforce by 12.5% since 2020. Read more ›

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ChatGPT now wants to connect up to your bank accounts — so what could possibly go wrong?

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TechRadar 1 place · today 05:30 EDT

OpenAI is launching a personal finance experience so you can connect up accounts and ask questions about your money. Read more ›

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We’re about to witness a critical moment for Google’s smart glasses

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Stephen Radochia @ Android Authority 1 place · today 05:30 EDT

The technology is finally in place for the revenge of Google Glass. Read more ›

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The Young Are Being Battered by AI as Hiring Shifts to Older Workers

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Ece Yildirim @ Gizmodo 1 place · today 05:30 EDT

A new survey says CEOs are looking to slash junior roles in the next two years and focus hiring on mid-level positions. Read more ›

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The First Atomic Bomb Test in 1945 Created an Entirely New Material

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Marta Musso @ Wired 1 place · today 05:30 EDT

The discovery from the Trinity nuclear test site shows how extreme conditions can result in materials never before seen in nature or in the lab. Read more ›

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Samsung's phone delay handed Apple an opening for a big iPhone year

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Jordan Hart @ Business Insider 3 place · today 05:27 EDT

Apple had a strong start to 2026 while the rest of the US smartphone market struggled. Delays may have been to blame, Counterpoint Research said. Read more ›

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Quiet luxury is out. Loud, in-your-face wealth is booming.

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Emily Stewart @ Business Insider · today 05:17 EDT

From Lauren Sánchez to the gold-plated Oval Office to "Mar-a-Lago face," America's elite are embracing louder, flashier displays of wealth. Read more ›

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Inside Amazon: 12 employees describe life under layoffs, AI pressure, and 5-day RTO

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Jacob Zinkula,Jane Zhang @ Business Insider · today 05:15 EDT

We spoke to 12 current and former Amazon workers about how layoffs, AI, and return-to-office rules reshaped their jobs in recent years. Read more ›

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Строительство Саркофага. Часть 1. Бетон, гранит и 1000 Р/ч: рождение «Укрытия»

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OzmaLee (Timeweb Cloud) @ Habr 1 place · today 05:05 EDT

«Укрытие», оно же Саркофаг, стало неотъемлемой часть внешнего вида ЧАЭС в представлении рядового человека и среднестатистического геймера. Это — конструкция из стали и бетона укрыла от мира развёрстую дыру реактора 4-го энергоблока Чернобыльской АЭС. Это — памятник первой Атомной эре, начавшейся с огненных грибов над Аламагордо и Японией и закончившийся полуночным взрывом на ЧАЭС. Это — гигантский короб, появившийся за считанные месяцы в тяжелейших условиях, с которыми когда либо сталкивались... Read more ›

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What NYC bus riders really want from Zohran Mamdani

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Allie Kelly @ Business Insider · today 05:04 EDT

NYC Mayor Zohran Mamdani's fast-and-free bus pitch is one of his best-known promises. Commuters are fans of the "fast" part — not so much the "free." Read more ›

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I went from Goldman Sachs to running a dance studio. My Wall Street years help me center clients and manage finances.

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Alice Tecotzky @ Business Insider · today 05:03 EDT

Caila Moed, 35, went from professional dance, to arts and philanthropy, to Goldman Sachs, to entrepreneurship — and a better work-life balance. Read more ›

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[Перевод] Эпоха иллюзорной продуктивности

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Bright_Translate (RUVDS.com) @ Habr 2 place · today 05:01 EDT

Закон Паркинсона гласит, что работа растягивается на всё отведённое под неё время. А в современную эпоху ИИ у людей вообще появился инструмент, способный масштабировать результаты их работы до той степени, до которой они смогут нагенерировать целевой контент, то есть почти безгранично.То, что я наблюдаю в своём профессиональном поле на протяжении двух последних лет, сложно описать. Первый явный звоночек я заметил чуть меньше, чем полтора года назад. Тогда я обратил внимание,... Read more ›

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I made $50,000 as a deaf Uber driver last year. I earn more than I did working in restaurants.

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Alex Bitter @ Business Insider · today 05:01 EDT

A deaf Uber driver in Texas shares how driving for a ride-hailing company helped him escape the restaurant industry and earn more money. Read more ›

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Get Windows 11 Pro for $10 and make your older PC feel faster again

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Mashable 1 place · today 05:00 EDT

Upgrade your aging computer with Microsoft Windows 11 Pro for $9.97 (reg. $199) through May 18 at 11:59 p.m. PT. Read more ›

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I spent a week with Walmart’s new $60 Google TV streamer, and I’m already blown away

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Joe Maring @ Android Authority 2 place · today 05:00 EDT

The new Onn 4K Pro is one heck of a streaming box. Read more ›

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Psychology suggests that marriages that are technically working — the bills paid, the holidays kept, the affection small but consistent — can produce a specific kind of loneliness most people are never told to expect, because the difference between a marriage that functions and a marriage that nourishes is something the culture has agreed not to teach you to notice

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Daniel Moran @ Silicon Canals · 05/10/2026 05:15 EDT

There is a kind of marriage almost no one warns you about, because the cultural script does not have language for it. The marriage is, by every external measure, working. The bills are getting paid. The children, if there are children, are well cared for. The holidays are kept. The anniversaries are remembered, even if ... Read more Read more ›

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Psychology says the cruelest thing about being raised by a narcissistic but charming parent isn’t anything they did at home — it’s the structural impossibility of being believed by anyone outside the house, and a child who learns early that the world will never see what they see grows into an adult who has stopped trying to be understood by people who weren’t there

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Daniel Moran @ Silicon Canals · 05/10/2026 05:30 EDT

Most discussions of narcissistic parenting focus on what happens inside the house. The criticism. The control. The manipulation. The endless requirement that the child organize themselves around the parent’s emotional needs. These are all real, well-documented, and worth talking about. But there is a second feature of being raised by this kind of parent that ... Read more Read more ›

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People in their 60s with no close friends didn’t lose those friendships through any failure of character — the friendships were structurally maintained by a workplace, a school run, a neighborhood, or a marriage, and when the structure ended the friendships ended with it, and what looks like a personal deficit is actually the silent collapse of an architecture nobody told them was holding their social life up

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Daniel Moran @ Silicon Canals · 05/10/2026 05:45 EDT

There is a strange thing that happens to a lot of people in their early sixties. They look around and notice, often for the first time, that they have very few close friends. The noticing is not always immediate. It builds slowly over a few years, in small moments. A weekend with no plans. A ... Read more Read more ›

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Adult children who feel almost nothing on routine calls with a parent — not love, not irritation, not connection, just dutiful neutrality — aren’t emotionally numb, they’re correctly registering that the relationship was never quite built, and the absence of feeling is the body’s honest report on a closeness that was assigned rather than developed

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Daniel Moran @ Silicon Canals · 05/10/2026 06:15 EDT

There is a particular emotional flavor that some adult children feel during their regular calls with a parent, and that very few of them ever describe out loud, because the feeling itself sounds, when stated plainly, like a kind of indictment. The flavor is not love. It is not warmth. It is not irritation, exactly. ... Read more Read more ›

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Psychology suggests that the loneliest moment in midlife isn’t a holiday or an anniversary — it’s a regular Wednesday afternoon when you realize you don’t actually know who in your life would notice if you went quiet for a week, and the realization arrives so calmly that it takes another few weeks to admit it counts as something worth grieving

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Daniel Moran @ Silicon Canals · 05/10/2026 06:30 EDT

The loneliest moment in midlife, for many people, does not arrive on a holiday. It does not arrive on an anniversary. It does not arrive at any of the dates the culture has earmarked as occasions when loneliness is, in some sense, expected and therefore prepared for. It arrives, in many cases, on a Wednesday ... Read more Read more ›

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Psychology suggests that adult children who are the most loyal to their parents in late life are often the ones who never quite became close to them — the loyalty is the substitute for the closeness that didn’t form, and the visits, the calls, the careful attention are sometimes a daughter’s way of paying for an intimacy that was supposed to have been included

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Daniel Moran @ Silicon Canals · 05/10/2026 06:45 EDT

There is a particular kind of adult child who shows up. They are the one who calls every Sunday. They are the one who flies in for every minor surgery. They are the one who, when the parent’s health begins to thin, takes over the medical appointments, the pharmacy runs, the small ongoing logistics of ... Read more Read more ›

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The person who lingers in the parking lot for a few minutes before going inside their own house isn’t avoiding anyone, they’re giving themselves the only stretch of unowed time they get in a day

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Editorial team @ Silicon Canals · 05/10/2026 23:13 EDT

The driveway pause isn't avoidance, it's a small act of time sovereignty in a day otherwise claimed in full. What psychology research reveals about brief solitude, the work-to-home transition, and why ten minutes in a parked car can be the most useful minutes of the day. Read more ›

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People who realize at 63 that they’ve been calling themselves busy for fifteen years often discover the more accurate word is unwilling, and busy was just the version that didn’t require them to explain anything

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Editorial team @ Silicon Canals · 05/10/2026 23:17 EDT

For many people in their sixties, the word 'busy' stops fitting the facts of their lives. What looked like a packed schedule was often a fluent way of saying no without having to explain anything — including to themselves. Read more ›

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The person who keeps a glass of water, a charger, and a book in the same place every night isn’t always being particular, they’re making mornings feel less unpredictable

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Editorial team @ Silicon Canals · 05/10/2026 23:20 EDT

The precisely arranged nightstand isn't a personality quirk. It's a small piece of nervous system infrastructure built by someone whose body learned, often very young, that mornings could be unpredictable — and that placing three objects in a known position is a quiet way of pre-empting the variables. Read more ›

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I spent two years waking up at 5am trying to become more disciplined – and ended up learning that rest is not laziness, and exhaustion is not a badge of honor

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Lachlan Brown @ Silicon Canals · 05/10/2026 23:29 EDT

I started waking up at 5am because I’d read enough founder essays and listened to enough podcasts to convince myself that the hour you wake up was the line between people who were serious about their life and people who weren’t. I stuck with it for two years. I want to write down what I ... Read more Read more ›

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