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389 The people who never ask follow-up questions about their friends’ lives aren’t disinterested. They’re often so used to managing their own internal noise that taking on someone else’s details feels like adding weight to a system already running at capacity

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Christian Kelly @ Silicon Canals · 04/26/2026 01:37 EDT

The people who never ask follow-up questions about their friends’ lives aren’t disinterested. They’re often so used to managing their own internal noise that taking on someone else’s details feels like adding weight to a system already running at capacity

The friends who never circle back to ask about your job, your parent, your bad week aren't cold or self-absorbed. They're often running an internal load so heavy that adding someone else's details feels like the thing that finally tips it over.

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