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33 Psychology says people who constantly apologize for things that aren’t their fault aren’t being polite. They grew up in an environment where someone else’s bad mood was always their responsibility to fix

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Sarah Mitchell @ Silicon Canals 3 place · today 04:51 EDT

Psychology says people who constantly apologize for things that aren’t their fault aren’t being polite. They grew up in an environment where someone else’s bad mood was always their responsibility to fix

Those who reflexively say "sorry" for everything aren't just being polite—they're often unconsciously replaying a childhood script where they had to manage volatile adults' emotions just to feel safe.

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