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8 Psychology says people who check on everyone else during a crisis before acknowledging their own fear aren’t selfless — they learned that being needed is the only form of safety their childhood ever reliably delivered

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Tommy Baker @ Silicon Canals 3 place · today 22:31 EDT

Psychology says people who check on everyone else during a crisis before acknowledging their own fear aren’t selfless — they learned that being needed is the only form of safety their childhood ever reliably delivered

The man running toward everyone else's fear while ignoring his own isn't brave — he's rehearsing a survival strategy he learned before he could tie his shoes.

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