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47 Psychology suggests retirees who become genuinely exhausting to be around are almost never aware they’re doing it — because the crankiness is grief wearing a disguise and the neediness is loneliness knocking on the only doors still open, and neither one feels like a choice from the inside

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Tommy Baker @ Silicon Canals · today 14:00 EDT

Psychology suggests retirees who become genuinely exhausting to be around are almost never aware they’re doing it — because the crankiness is grief wearing a disguise and the neediness is loneliness knocking on the only doors still open, and neither one feels like a choice from the inside

The moment your spouse sits you down and says "you're becoming impossible to live with," you realize that retirement isn't the peaceful sunset you imagined—it's a storm of invisible grief and unrecognized loneliness that transforms you into someone even you don't recognize.

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