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37 There’s a generation of people who were taught to apologize for their needs so effectively that as adults they experience wanting something as a form of aggression against whoever might have to provide it

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Tommy Baker @ Silicon Canals 2 place · today 07:09 EDT

There’s a generation of people who were taught to apologize for their needs so effectively that as adults they experience wanting something as a form of aggression against whoever might have to provide it

For many adults, the experience of wanting something arrives pre-loaded with guilt, as if the need itself is an act of aggression against whoever might have to help. The roots trace back to a childhood where asking was quietly but consistently treated as a burden.

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