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98 I’m 66 and I just realized that the things I used to call my personality – punctual, tidy, self-sufficient, never dramatic – were survival strategies I developed before I was ten and kept running long after they stopped being necessary

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Tommy Baker @ Silicon Canals · today 06:47 EDT

I’m 66 and I just realized that the things I used to call my personality – punctual, tidy, self-sufficient, never dramatic – were survival strategies I developed before I was ten and kept running long after they stopped being necessary

For decades, she thought being punctual, tidy, and self-sufficient made her a responsible adult—until her therapist revealed they were just the survival tactics of a scared seven-year-old still running her life at sixty-six.

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