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16 I’m in my 30s and I just understood something about my father that therapy never gave me. He didn’t withhold affection because he didn’t feel it. He withheld it because in the world he came from, the moment you showed someone how much they meant to you was the moment you gave them the power to destroy you.

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Daniel Voss @ Silicon Canals · today 22:11 EDT

I’m in my 30s and I just understood something about my father that therapy never gave me. He didn’t withhold affection because he didn’t feel it. He withheld it because in the world he came from, the moment you showed someone how much they meant to you was the moment you gave them the power to destroy you.

A neuroscientist in his 30s reckons with his father's emotional distance and discovers that withholding affection wasn't a deficit of feeling — it was a survival strategy inherited from a world where vulnerability meant danger.

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