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717 There was a moment in my late twenties when I realized every close friendship I’d lost wasn’t a relationship that ended. It was a version of myself that could only exist around those specific people, and the grief was never about them leaving. It was about that version of me having nowhere left to live.

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Daniel Voss @ Silicon Canals · 04/06/2026 05:07 EDT

There was a moment in my late twenties when I realized every close friendship I’d lost wasn’t a relationship that ended. It was a version of myself that could only exist around those specific people, and the grief was never about them leaving. It was about that version of me having nowhere left to live.

When friendships fade, we often think we're grieving the person who left. But the real loss may be the version of yourself that could only exist in their company — a self with no other context to call it home.

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