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27 The people who laugh hardest at their own pain aren’t resilient. They learned early that if they set the tone for how their suffering was received, nobody else could decide it was worse than they were prepared to admit. The humor isn’t processing. It’s perimeter control.

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Tommy Baker @ Silicon Canals 2 place · today 01:07 EDT

The people who laugh hardest at their own pain aren’t resilient. They learned early that if they set the tone for how their suffering was received, nobody else could decide it was worse than they were prepared to admit. The humor isn’t processing. It’s perimeter control.

The funniest people in the room aren't always processing their pain — some learned early to use humor as perimeter control, setting the tone for how their suffering is received so nobody else can decide it's worse than they're prepared to admit.

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