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64 Psychology suggests people who adopt their parents’ bad traits as they get older aren’t becoming their parents — they’re reverting to the most deeply installed operating system they have, the one that was running before they were old enough to choose a different one, and stress, age, and the slow erosion of self-monitoring are simply the conditions under which it boots back up

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Christian Kelly @ Silicon Canals · today 13:15 EDT

Psychology suggests people who adopt their parents’ bad traits as they get older aren’t becoming their parents — they’re reverting to the most deeply installed operating system they have, the one that was running before they were old enough to choose a different one, and stress, age, and the slow erosion of self-monitoring are simply the conditions under which it boots back up

When the carefully constructed version of yourself starts to crack under pressure, what emerges isn't you becoming your parents—it's your brain defaulting to its factory settings, the behavioral blueprint installed before you were old enough to know you had a choice.

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