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28 I stopped explaining myself when I apologize and the reactions taught me exactly which people in my life had been treating my explanations as retractions. To them, sorry with a reason attached meant sorry didn’t really count, and sorry without one meant I was finally admitting fault on their terms.

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Sarah Mitchell @ Silicon Canals 3 place · today 00:58 EDT

I stopped explaining myself when I apologize and the reactions taught me exactly which people in my life had been treating my explanations as retractions. To them, sorry with a reason attached meant sorry didn’t really count, and sorry without one meant I was finally admitting fault on their terms.

When you strip an apology down to its bare bones, the people who respond with relief reveal something important: they weren't struggling to understand you — they were struggling to maintain a version of events where your reasons kept getting in the way.

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