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51 There’s a specific kind of loneliness that only hits people who are very good at listening. Everyone trusts them with the heavy stuff, everyone seeks them out when things fall apart, and nobody ever thinks to ask them how they’re doing because the role was assigned so early it became invisible.

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Tommy Baker @ Silicon Canals 3 place · today 02:32 EDT

There’s a specific kind of loneliness that only hits people who are very good at listening. Everyone trusts them with the heavy stuff, everyone seeks them out when things fall apart, and nobody ever thinks to ask them how they’re doing because the role was assigned so early it became invisible.

The people everyone trusts with the heavy stuff are often the loneliest in the room — not because they lack connections, but because the role of listener was assigned so early it became invisible, and nobody ever thinks to ask them how they're doing.

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