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70 I’m 37 and I realized I wasn’t actually a good person the day my wife said “you’re kind to strangers and cruel to the people closest to you” — and the worst part wasn’t the accusation, it was that I couldn’t argue because I’d been using up all my patience on people who didn’t matter and coming home empty

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Lachlan Brown @ Silicon Canals 1 place · today 15:11 EDT

I’m 37 and I realized I wasn’t actually a good person the day my wife said “you’re kind to strangers and cruel to the people closest to you” — and the worst part wasn’t the accusation, it was that I couldn’t argue because I’d been using up all my patience on people who didn’t matter and coming home empty

After years of being praised for my kindness, I discovered I'd been saving all my patience for strangers while bringing home an empty, irritable shell of myself to the people who actually loved me.

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