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90 People who go quiet when they’re hurt instead of raising their voice learned somewhere very early that their anger wasn’t received as information. It was received as an inconvenience. So they stopped sending the signal and started absorbing the damage, and they’ve been doing it so long they sometimes mistake silence for calm

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Christian Kelly @ Silicon Canals 3 place · today 04:26 EDT

People who go quiet when they’re hurt instead of raising their voice learned somewhere very early that their anger wasn’t received as information. It was received as an inconvenience. So they stopped sending the signal and started absorbing the damage, and they’ve been doing it so long they sometimes mistake silence for calm

People who go quiet when hurt aren't calm — they learned early that their pain was treated as an inconvenience, so they stopped expressing it and started absorbing it, until silence became indistinguishable from peace.

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