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Lachlan Brown @ Silicon Canals · today 08:47 EDT

Psychology says the worst part of people-pleasing isn’t the exhaustion – it’s realizing that no one actually knows you because you never gave them the real version

There is a particular kind of tiredness that people-pleasers know well. It’s not the tiredness of hard work. It’s the tiredness of performance, the exhaustion of managing every interaction, calibrating every response, monitoring every room for signals about what is wanted, and producing it before anyone has to ask. It’s relentless and largely invisible, and ... Read more

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