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57 I’m 34 and I’ve started noticing that the friends I made in my twenties loved the version of me that was convenient for them. The version that said yes, split the bill when I couldn’t afford it, and never made my problems anyone else’s weight. Growing out of that person cost me half my contacts and none of my peace.

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Lachlan Brown @ Silicon Canals · today 03:03 EDT

I’m 34 and I’ve started noticing that the friends I made in my twenties loved the version of me that was convenient for them. The version that said yes, split the bill when I couldn’t afford it, and never made my problems anyone else’s weight. Growing out of that person cost me half my contacts and none of my peace.

Losing friends in your thirties often isn't a failure — it's the natural result of stopping a performance you never agreed to give. The research on boundaries, enmeshed relationships, and people-pleasing patterns explains why growing into yourself costs you contacts but returns your peace.

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