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438 Not everyone who keeps a mental inventory of every favor they’ve done is keeping score. Some of them were raised in homes where reciprocity was the only reliable evidence that someone valued you.

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Lachlan Brown @ Silicon Canals · 03/27/2026 22:36 EDT

Not everyone who keeps a mental inventory of every favor they’ve done is keeping score. Some of them were raised in homes where reciprocity was the only reliable evidence that someone valued you.

For many people, tracking favors isn't about control or manipulation — it's a childhood survival strategy built in homes where reciprocity was the only reliable evidence that someone valued you.

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