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81 Children who grew up watching their parents stay together despite being visibly unhappy often develop a very specific fear as adults — they confuse sacrifice with love and can’t tell the difference until someone shows them both

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Christian Kelly @ Silicon Canals · today 12:01 EDT

Children who grew up watching their parents stay together despite being visibly unhappy often develop a very specific fear as adults — they confuse sacrifice with love and can’t tell the difference until someone shows them both

The children who watched their parents endure each other learned something devastating about love before they had any language for it — and most of them are still unlearning it decades later.

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