581 Psychology says the moment you stop trying to become your “best self” and start accepting your actual self is the moment most people describe as the turning point – not because they gave up but because they finally stopped performing for an audience that was never going to approve of them anyway

Newark apartment complex bought for much less than prior value

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George Avalos @ Silicon Valley 1 place · 02/07/2106 01:28 EDT

An East Bay apartment complex has been bought at a price that's well below its prior value. Read more ›

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PG&E buys San Jose building to bolster South Bay operations

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George Avalos @ Silicon Valley 2 place · 02/07/2106 01:28 EDT

A PG&E Corp. unit has bought a San Jose building in a move to bolster the utility's South Bay operations. Read more ›

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The next MacBook Neo could get a RAM upgrade. Yeah, in this economy, no less!

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Shimul Sood @ Digital Trends 1 place · today 01:51 EDT

Apple's next MacBook Neo is rumored to pack the A19 Pro chip with 12GB of RAM — a long-overdue upgrade that could finally make the entry-level Mac laptop worth every penny. Read more ›

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The definitive sign someone has done real internal work isn’t calmness, articulate self-awareness, or the right vocabulary, it’s the absence of urgency to make you understand them before you’ve finished talking

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Sarah Mitchell @ Silicon Canals 1 place · today 01:43 EDT

Real internal work doesn't show up as composure or fluent self-awareness. It shows up as the ability to be misread for a full sentence without panicking — the dropped urgency to correct the record before someone has finished talking. Read more ›

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Zed 1.0: эпоха Electron-редакторов — всё

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arthurpro @ Habr 1 place · today 01:43 EDT

Вчера вышел Zed 1.0. Пять лет работы, миллион с лишним строк на Rust, публичная превьюшка, которой ежедневно пользовались сотни тысяч разработчиков, и вот команда Zed Industries во главе с Натаном Собо запостила релиз 29 апреля 2026 года. Я лет пятнадцать живу в IDE от JetBrains. Пробовал VS Code. Пробовал Cursor. Гонял code-server на удалённой виртуалке. Ничего не приживалось. Zed прижился, и релиз 1.0 — нормальный повод объяснить, почему.Если коротко: больше... Read more ›

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Google Photos will let you try on clothes you already have in the wardrobe, or just screenshotted

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Rachit Agarwal @ Digital Trends 2 place · today 01:42 EDT

Google Photos is getting a new wardrobe feature that uses AI to catalog your outfits from past photos, help you mix and match looks, and virtually try them on. Read more ›

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Фейковый бренд в AI-поиске и 2 000 AI-статей: что эксперименты SE Ranking говорят нам о будущем SEO

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AndreyTrig @ Habr 2 place · today 01:37 EDT

AI-поиск всё сильнее меняет правила игры. Раньше мы боролись за позиции в Google, теперь всё чаще боремся за то, чтобы бренд попал в ответ ChatGPT, Perplexity, Gemini или Google AI Overviews.И здесь у SEO-специалиста возникает неприятный, но важный вопрос: AI-системы действительно выбирают лучшие источники — или просто те, которые чаще, понятнее и удобнее подсовывают им информацию?Два эксперимента SE Ranking дают на это очень интересный ответ.В первом исследовании команда проверяла, как... Read more ›

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Болезни, которые в поликлиниках лечат фармакологией, можно вылечить питанием

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PetrVasilchenko @ Habr 3 place · today 01:31 EDT

Вы уверены, что таблетки - единственный путь? История, которая ломает шаблоныПолтора года назад моей знакомой поставили диагноз «аутоиммунный тиреоидит». Вердикт районного эндокринолога был стандартным: «Пожизненно принимать гормоны. Другого не дано». Щитовидная железа была в плачевном состоянии, уровень антител зашкаливал.Она не послушалась. Вместо аптеки она ушла в топовую клинику Краснодара, где ей прописали… диету и БАДы. Без единой таблетки левотироксина. Жёсткие ограничения, исключение целых групп про Read more ›

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Тюнинг Cursor: как я укротил AI-ассистента и радикально снизил счета за токены с помощью MCP-серверов

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vpomo @ Habr · today 01:19 EDT

Cursor или его аналоги, здорово облегчают написание кода, когда речь идет о каких‑то не очень больших проектах. Но стоит попробовать применить их к серьезному, сложному проекту, состоящему из нескольких репозиториев, и тут же сталкиваешься с тем, что эти «чудеса» оборачиваются просто огромными счетами за токены. Я в этой статье поделюсь, как мне удалось перестать впустую сжигать миллионы токенов. Для этого пришлось собрать и запустить три MCP‑сервера по протоколу Model Context... Read more ›

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Earlybird VC closes €360 million Fund VIII, its largest yet, as it implements perpetual active ownership model

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Rahul Raj @ EU-Startups 1 place · today 01:17 EDT

Berlin-based VC firm Earlybird VC has closed its eighth early-stage tech fund at €360 million. This marks the pan-European VC firm’s largest fundraising round to date and maintains its steady fund cadence throughout market cycles. The firm asserts that it has consistently raised a new fund every three to four years, without fail, across both ... Read more ›

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The definitive sign of self-respect isn’t confidence or assertiveness, it’s the willingness to leave a conversation, a room, or a relationship without first manufacturing a reason that makes you look polite for going

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Tommy Baker @ Silicon Canals 2 place · today 01:13 EDT

Confidence and assertiveness are public postures. The deeper marker of self-respect is the willingness to end a conversation, a room, or a relationship without first inventing a justification that makes the leaving look polite. Read more ›

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A hidden map in your nose could explain how smell works

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ScienceDaily 1 place · today 01:05 EDT

Scientists have finally cracked one of the biggest mysteries in the senses: how smell is organized. By mapping millions of neurons in mice, researchers discovered that smell receptors in the nose aren’t random at all—they’re arranged in neat, overlapping stripes based on receptor type, forming a hidden structure scientists never knew existed. Even more striking, this layout mirrors how smell information is mapped in the brain, revealing a coordinated system... Read more ›

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Meet the startups using AI to discover new materials

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Startups in Iceland to watch, according to VCs

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Exclusive: Groove Quantum raises €16m to ramp up chip production

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Nike Promo Codes and Deals: 30% Off

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Adrienne So @ Wired 1 place · today 01:00 EDT

Check out our deals for Nike this month, including 15% off select purchases. Read more ›

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Iceland might be Europe’s most exciting startup hub (per capita)

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Sifted · today 01:00 EDT

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Tamara Taps Lean Technologies’ Open Banking to Boost Credit Approvals by 32%

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The Fintech Times @ The Fintech Times 1 place · today 01:00 EDT

Tamara partners with Lean Technologies to expand credit access, boosting approvals by 32% using Open Banking data. Read more ›

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Hyperliquid’s HYPE token could be its prediction market weapon, Arthur Hayes says

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Sam Reynolds @ CoinDesk 1 place · today 00:54 EDT

HIP-4 could become a dominant prediction-market venue because Hyperliquid users can get economic exposure to platform usage through HYPE, unlike users of Polymarket or Kalshi. Read more ›

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Резервирование PostgreSQL с помощью WAL-G

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OlegIct @ Habr · today 00:52 EDT

Утилита резервирования pgBackRest перестала поддерживаться, проект заархивирован, стало актуальным найти замену для pgBackRest. Главными альтернативами называют WAL-G и Barman. Также, можно использовать pg_basebackup+pg_receivewal. Преимущество WAL-G в том, что резервирование возможно по протоколу S3 и WAL-G обеспечивает более высокую скорость резервирования. Кроме протокола S3, WAL-G может резервировать и восстанавливать из директории в файловой системе и работает с Patroni. Директория не обязательно наход Read more ›

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Not everyone who says they’re fine is lying. Some people genuinely cannot locate the word for what they’re feeling because nobody ever sat with them long enough to help them name it, and fine became the only vocabulary they trust

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Daniel Voss @ Silicon Canals · 04/23/2026 03:05 EDT

For some people, saying they're fine isn't evasion — it's the only emotional vocabulary they were ever given. The psychology of alexithymia, and why naming feelings is a skill, not an instinct. Read more ›

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The people who can’t accept help without immediately offering something in return aren’t generous. They’re running an internal ledger that was installed the first time receiving something came with strings, and the ledger has never once gone quiet

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Daniel Voss @ Silicon Canals · 04/23/2026 03:35 EDT

The compulsion to immediately repay every kindness isn't generosity — it's a nervous system trained by childhood conditions where receiving something always came with strings. Here's what the ledger actually costs, and how it starts to quiet. Read more ›

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A clinical psychologist explains that the adult children who check on their aging parents most often aren’t the favorites — they’re usually the ones still hoping for a conversation they stopped expecting years ago

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Nadia Chen @ Silicon Canals · 04/23/2026 06:07 EDT

The adult child who calls every Sunday isn't demonstrating love — they're running a longer experiment, one most families never learn to see. Read more ›

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Psychology says people who use social media but never post about themselves have separated the value of staying informed from the cost of participating in the performance — and that quiet withdrawal isn’t disinterest or insecurity, it’s one of the most deliberate digital choices a person can make in an era that treats visibility as currency

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Christian Kelly @ Silicon Canals · 04/23/2026 06:15 EDT

While millions treat social media as their personal stage, the quiet majority has discovered something profound: they can stay completely connected to their world without sacrificing their privacy, authenticity, or the freedom to change their minds without an audience watching. Read more ›

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I’m 66 and my son and I have never once said “I love you” to each other — not because we don’t, but because neither of us was shown how, and we’ve built a 40-year relationship out of carefully timed phone calls, fishing trips we don’t talk through, and a nod at the airport that has to do the work of every word we never learned how to say

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Tommy Baker @ Silicon Canals · 04/23/2026 06:30 EDT

After four decades of Sunday phone calls that last exactly fifteen minutes and fishing trips filled with comfortable silence, I'm finally learning that all the oil changes and airport handshakes in the world can't replace three words I've never said to my son. Read more ›

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You know you’ve encountered a high-level thinker if they make you feel smarter after the conversation, not dumber — because mediocre intellects use their intelligence to win, and high-level thinkers use it to help, and the real test of a great mind isn’t how impressive they sound but how many people leave rooms they were in feeling more capable than they walked in

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Tommy Baker @ Silicon Canals · 04/23/2026 06:45 EDT

The smartest contractor I ever met was an electrician who asked more questions than a five-year-old, and by the end of our conversation, I'd solved problems I didn't even know I had—that's when I learned the difference between people who use their intelligence to dominate and those who use it to elevate. Read more ›

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Psychology says a woman has a beautiful soul if she has taken real pain and turned it into gentleness rather than armor — because the default response to being hurt is becoming harder, and the woman who went through the same things and came out softer instead has done something rare and almost impossible to teach

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Sarah Mitchell @ Silicon Canals · 04/23/2026 07:30 EDT

When life breaks you open, the natural instinct is to armor up and protect yourself from future hurt—but some women do something extraordinary instead, transforming their deepest wounds into a radical gentleness that becomes their superpower. Read more ›

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I’m 64 and my son got divorced last year and he called me late one night and cried on the phone for twenty minutes — and I realized that was the first time in his adult life he had cried in front of me, and I also realized that I had never cried in front of him, not once, and I understood in that moment that he had probably been waiting thirty years for permission I had never thought to give him, and I started crying too, and we sat on the phone in the dark like two people finally being honest

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Tommy Baker @ Silicon Canals · 04/23/2026 07:45 EDT

After decades of stoic silence between father and son, one devastating phone call in the darkness cracked open everything they'd been too afraid to feel—and revealed the crushing weight of permissions never granted. Read more ›

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Psychology says the people who find it hardest to be taken care of when they’re sick aren’t independent, they’re carrying a very old belief that needing someone was the fastest way to be left

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Lachlan Brown @ Silicon Canals · 04/23/2026 08:28 EDT

The adults who flinch at a glass of water brought to their bedside aren't self-reliant — they're protecting a wound that learned to call itself a personality. Read more ›

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Psychology says the hardest truth about aging isn’t that your body slows down — it’s that you become invisible in rooms you used to command, and most people never acknowledge this shift because it implies something they’re not ready to admit about how much of their identity was built on being seen

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Lachlan Brown @ Silicon Canals · 04/23/2026 09:39 EDT

Nobody warns you about the moment you walk into a room you’ve spent years owning, and no one looks up. Not in a rude way. Not with any malice. Just… nothing. The conversations keep flowing. The energy doesn’t shift. You’re there, and somehow, simultaneously, you’re not. It doesn’t happen all at once. It creeps in ... Read more Read more ›

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